In Candy's Corner

In Candy's Corner contains the inspirational ideals of Christian writer Candace "Candy" Mills. Candy often shares her own thoughts and sometimes the writings of others whom she finds truly inspiring.

Monday, March 24, 2008

The Magic of Three Days

By Patt Barnes


It was a beautiful spring day, and a sense of peace stayed with me as I left the cathedral on Easter Monday morning. I paused for a moment on top of the steps leading to the avenue, now crowded with people rushing to their jobs. Sitting in her usual place inside a small archway was the old flower lady. At her feet corsages and boutonnieres were parading on top of a spread-open newspaper.

The flower lady was smiling, her wrinkled old face alive with some inner joy. I started down the stairs—then, on an impulse, turned and picked out a flower.

As I put it in my lapel, I said, “You look happy this morning.”

“Why not? Everything is good.”

She was dressed so shabbily and seemed so very old that her reply startled me.

“You’ve been sitting here for many years now, haven’t you? And always smiling. You wear your troubles well.”

“You can’t reach my age and not have troubles,” she replied. “Only it’s like Jesus and Good Friday . . . ” She paused for a moment.

“Yes?” I prompted.

“Well, when Jesus was crucified on Good Friday, that was the worst day for the whole world. And when I get troubles I remember that, and then I think of what happened only three days later—Easter and our Lord arising. So when I get troubles, I’ve learned to wait three days . . . somehow everything gets all right again.”

And she smiled good-bye. Her words still follow me whenever I think I have troubles. Give God a chance to help . . . wait three days.

The above article originally appeared in Guideposts magazine.

Saturday, March 01, 2008

Lenten Reflection taken from the St Therese Parish bulletin...

Suggestions of things we can give up for Lent & positive faithful ways to show others we care...

Give up complaining...focus on gratitude

Give up pessimism...become an optimist.

Give up harsh judgments...think kindly thoughts.

Give up worry...trust Divine Providence.

Give up discouragement...be full of hope.

Give up bitterness...turn to forgiveness.

Give up hatred...return good for evil.

Give up negativism...be positive.

Give up anger...be more patient.

Give up pettiness...become mature.

Give up gloom...enjoy the beauty that is all around you.

Give up jealousy...pray for trust.

Give up gossiping...control your tongue.

Give up sin...turn to virtue.

Give up giving up...hang in there